An old boyfriend once told me that nothing is more provocative on a woman than confidence. I say, "Nothing is more provocative than a confident woman in luxurious lingerie."
For me, wearing a beautiful matching bra and panty set in a sumptuous fabric makes me feel sexy any day. It's never mattered to me whether my boyfriends ever knew that I was wearing extra lingerie or not or even if my husband does now. What has mattered all along is that I've known!
Panties
The right kind of lingerie will set me up for the day. If there's a day where I feel like hell warmed over, I'll look though my precious, color-coded lingerie drawers only to find my mood lifting. Once I slip the silk over my body, my decision is made. "Today is going to be good!"
Over the years, I've noticed that I tend to gravitate towards confident colors and sets based upon my moods. The following is what I've found agreeing to my mood:
· White Bra: Fresh, new beginnings
· Black Bra: Meow, confident, nothings getting past me today
· Red Bra: Sexy vixen, sassy, watch out
· Pink Bra: Sweet, loving, tender, kind
· Blue Bra: Calm, mellow, steady
· Green Bra: Grounding
· Brown Bra: Stylish, serious
· Orange Bra: Artistic, creative
· Flower print Bra: Girlie
· Stripes Bra: Fun-loving, sporty
What does lingerie do for my mood?
Lingerie reminds me of the time I tried on a 0,000 necklace at Tiffany. The ladies with me were encouraging me to try on the bejeweled necklace dripping in diamonds. I thought, "Why? I don't even like diamonds." Begrudgingly, I tried it on, only to be shocked at how such a dainty, delicately crafted piece could immediately alter my mood.
Once it was on my neck, "I felt it!" The feeling can only be described as a symbiotic blend of craftsmanship, beauty, and elegance. And I hadn't even I looked in the mirror yet. I can still feel the light, countless karats effortlessly draping over my clavicle and the polished gold gliding over my skin. It was as if the necklace were made just for me. And when I saw it on myself...
...Well, I don't have to say anymore. It was a priceless experience. In that moment, I finally knew why they say, "Diamonds are a girl's best friend."
The right lingerie can have the same mood altering affect--for a lot less money. "Whew!" Lingerie can heighten parts of my body that I never knew could look like that! What it does for my confidence, even if I'm the only one who knows it, is priceless!
What can you do to have your own mood altering feel with lingerie?
Take Inventory!
Start taking consideration of which lingerie you gravitate to throughout the month. See if there is any specific lingerie that you wear when you're feeling happy, sassy, or romantic. How do you feel when the lingerie is next to your skin?
Is there any lingerie that makes you feel bad? Does it remind you of an unhappy time with an old lover, a bad point in your life, or when you were a weight that you didn't like? If so, "Get rid of it!"
You should only wear lingerie that makes you feel good about yourself! Wearing lingerie that makes you feel bad is the kiss of death. Lingerie is the closest thing next to your skin. The lingerie that you wear will work on how you feel and how gift yourself to the world.
If you don't have one set of matching lingerie that makes you feel good, then set some money aside and buy at least one set (matching bra and panty) just to try it out. The following are some good places to look for your lingerie:
Boutiques (Price: $$-$$$$)
Don't let the word "boutique" scare you. They will carry couture, high quality, and one-of-a-kind lingerie. Prices will vary from middle-of-the-road to high end. Check out boutique sales. I recently bought a beautiful bra and panty set (around 0) at the end of the season for 50% off. Some of my popular boutiques are:
· La petite Coquette (in New York)
· Faire de Frou Frou (in Los Angeles)
· Agent Provacateur (in the United Kingdom)
If you don't live near these boutiques, then guide a hunt online for boutiques in your area. Your local boutiques will more than likely have a website and the above boutiques can also be found on the web.
Order Online (Price: $-$$$$)
There are some wonderful websites with a large range of designers, quality, and style. Below are some of my favorites:
· http://www.bluefly.com/
· http://www.figleaves.com/
· http://www.barenecessities.com/
If you order online, make sure that you have your measurements (see http://evesapples.blogspot.com/2007_12_01_archive.html#6204040695658953039 on seeing your accurate bra size). Before placing the order, check your measurements against the designer's size chart listed on the website. Every designer will cut the bra differently. If you are still unsure of your size, call the website and ask for assistance.
Department market (Price: $$-$$$$)
They will carry a large range of bras and panties in a wide range of styles and sizes. Some of the higher-end agency market will carry the ability brands like La Perla and Cosabella.
Some agency market that I prefer are:
· Nordstrom
· Neiman Marcus
· Saks Fifth Avenue
· Macy's
Check for end-of-the-season sales. You can get your most costly brand names for a discounted rate. End-of-the-season sales commonly run in July-August and January.
Discount Store (Price: $-$$)
If you're a trade hunter, then you can get European and Domestic lingerie for 40-60% off the retail price at a reduction store. Keep in mind that these market are petite when you try to match bra and panty sets. You can find sets, but you will have to rummage.
Just the other day, I found a John Galliano bra for . Guess what? There were no panties. If you are a size 34B-36C, then you have a good chance at seeing a matching set. Otherwise, it's a size crapshoot.
Some of my popular reduction market are:
· Tjmaxx
· Marshalls
· Century 21 (in New York)
Once you get your extra set of lingerie, you'll be amazed how such a small piece of clothing can lift your spirits.
My version of that infamous commercial is the following:
· Bra -
· Expensive diamond Necklace - 0,000
· The Way Luxurious Lingerie Makes Me Feel - Priceless!
Priceless Panties - Mood Lingerie
